Breaking up is the most painful part of a relationship, when this happens you get confused if the break up is permanent or temporary. It's a torment to move on with life if you still have the question What if we could patch things up? If you still love the person it's hard to move on knowing there are still things you can do to win your ex back and just ignore it. If after you tried everything to win an ex back and nothing happened then you can say, you've done it all and you need to accept the break up and move on. Do not force or manipulate your ex because these things don't work. You will not win an ex back through force and manipulation.

In break ups there are still chances to win an ex back, that's why there is a saying Love is lovelier the second time around. If an ex needs a break or space to think things over then give that space. While your ex is thinking this is also the time for you to think what has happened and what are your actions that triggered this break up. You may realize things that you need to improve or change for the sake of the relationship. Chances are your ex is doing the same with the space he or she needs to think things over.

Even if you want to win an ex back so badly, try not to show that you crave that much. Do not beg or act so depressed or lonely. Acting so depressed and lonely is not a good way to win an ex back. These actions may actually scare your ex away and your ex may feel very sorry for you. No person would like to be around with a very depressed and lonely person and worst manipulate others through these negative feelings. Keep your dignity and learn to give yourself the chance to be happy with other people s company. Get acquainted with other people to divert your thoughts to other things and this may actually help you to be a better person and discover the joy in other people's company.

Stop blaming yourself or your ex. Relationships are complicated and when it needs to end you don't have to carry grudges. Besides you've love the person with all your heart and there are still a lot of ways to win an ex back and blaming is definitely not one of them. If you keep quiet, acts a little aloof and try to move on, chances are you will win an ex back if you both feel the love you once have when you started the relationship.