Almost every man logically knows that if you want to attract and be with more women then you need to actually approach more women.

Yet, when given the chance to do exactly that, most men choose to do what they normally do which is to not approach her.

Why is it that a man can know what to do in order to attract women and still not do it?

Perhaps, it is because what drives our behavior with women is an instinctive reaction to pain and pleasure and not an intellectual or logical calculation.

As long as the pain you imagine you might receive when you approach a woman is greater than the pleasure you can imagine from approaching a woman; you will not approach her.

Knowing this, the next question you can ask yourself is what meaning do you attach to approach women?

Do you look at approaching women as an opportunity to attract?

Do you look at approaching women as a risk of rejection?

Maybe, you look at it from both perspectives and then again maybe something entirely different.

No matter what you think about it, you need to ask yourself if the way you are looking at approaching women helping or hurting your chances of actually approaching women.

If it is helping your chances then you already have begun approaching more women.

If not, then you need to find a more empowering way to look at approaching women so that you can begin approaching more women now.