Predictability is deadly, especially to a new relationship. If you do and say the same old stuff that every other guy does and says, how excited is she going to be?

{To a woman with prominent breasts) Excuse me madam, I'm from the National Anti-Terrorism Agency. I have reason to believe those breasts may contain explosives. Do you mind if I take a look? OK, it's Graucho Marx, but it's got to raise a smile, at least!

{To woman with particularly long legs) "Hi! I'm a leg wax salesman. WOuld you mind where you get yours? It must be costing you a fortune!"

(To a woman who has clearly spent hours making herself look good) "Hi! I guess this is one of your off days, but I bet you scrub up well."

You get the idea?

If it's possible for this to be a real part of your personality, find your own ways to be surprising, shading just this side of outrageous. If you are really not naturally good at it, practise in a safe place before trying it out on a woman you're trying to impress.

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